A New Stage in the Journey
Merle’s mental and physical health have deteriorated rapidly over the last two weeks, and he is entering hospice today. He has developed severe edema because his body is not absorbing protein so his vein walls have become permeable. As a result his legs and abdomen are very swollen with retained water. At the same time he is suffering from dehydration because there is too little water circulating in his blood. This imbalance in his system makes it hard for him to walk and worse of all has led to trouble concentrating and alot of confusion about where he is, what day it is, who is with him, etc. (Hence, I, MaryBeth, am writing this entry.) We saw Dr. Kauh this morning and he recommended Merle enter inpatient hospice to evaluate his needs. He may come home again depending on how things progress.
I’m so sorry to read this. My prayers are with all of you at this sad time. Thank you for taking the time to update people.
I’m sorry MB. I think of you and your family often. I hope the hospice people can help make this stage easier for you.
My prayers for your family – strength, peace, patience, and lots of love
Thank you for updating us, MaryBeth. I hope the hospice folks can do something to make this stage more comfortable for Merle. Please know our family is keeping your family close in our hearts.
Please give Merle our love – we are thinking of him and all of you.
Ele and Daniel
Thank you for updating the blog, Mary Beth. You are all in my thoughts.
Love to you both. Please let me know if there is anything at all I can do.
Thinking of you all with much love.
Nancy, Reid, Kara and Eliza
Thank you for letting us know, MaryBeth. My thoughts are with you both.
Jeffe
(old college friend)
MaryBeth, I am holding you, Merle and your family in my prayers. I’ll keep in touch over the next few days.
With love,
Rev. Jan
MB, you and Merle and the children are in my thoughts.
MaryBeth, I am so sorry to hear the news. You, Merle, and your children are in my prayers. I pray that the doctors will be able to help ease the discomfort for Merle.
Love and hugs,
Anne
MB: Dayna’s sis, here. I know she gave you my number, so please don’t hesitate to call if you have any questions or if I can help you in any way. Hope Merle is comfortable…. Those pumps are unbelievable!!