To Merle & MaryBeth’s friends…
The following was posted as a comment on my blog by Marina:
For the local ATL friends who are interested in helping with child care or meals, please let me know at marina@merlehamburger.net and I will include you on the Hamburger Care Team e-mail list and share upcoming opportunities. Note: your name will be vetted by Merle and MB to ensure that no wacko sociopaths (emphasis added) are brought into the caring circle
peace and love,
Marina
As I said, I really appreciate that Marina is doing this for us, though I did say that eliminating wacko sociopaths will significantly limit those who CAN be brought into the caring circle. 
I will post a more substantial blog later, but I have to say, it’s the little things in life, often, that have the largest impact. Last night my 4 year old daughter was scared to sleep in her own room. When I went to check on her, she asked if I would sleep that night in her room. I agreed and she was reassured and fell asleep quickly.
It’s pretty powerful stuff when just agreeing to be there for someone is enough to chase away fear. My daughter’s request is also a metaphor for life in general. (Wow, that turned out to be WAY deeper than I expected — originally, this was intended to be a post about staying present and enjoying the simple moments. Who knew I could wax so philosophic?)
Merle
Mr. Hamburger (as Patrick’s mom, I must use the formality),
I have just learned of your blog, and am grate-ful to be a part. I need to spend a bit more time catching up, but have had the pleasure of reading the most recent days. Isn’t it something when one can obtain simple joys from feeling a small part of another’s life?
Patrick and I were shocked to hear your news (no more than yourself, I’m sure), and have had you in our conversations and prayers (mine, at least) ever since. I look forward to reading of your progress during your upcoming treatments, and thank you for sharing.
Please let your wife know that I know how tough it is to be the caretaker, and to please call me (even though we’ve never met) if she needs to chat, vent, or simply get moral support. Patrick can do the same for your son (Ben, isn’t it?). I am having hip replacement the day after you begin treatments, so maybe we can cross prayers for a while?
I love your sense of humor (it’s just like mine), and believe that humor will get you far – and will allow you to do so with grace and strength. Tough times abate quickly with laughter and a mild irreverance is healthy (at least, to me)!
My little Sami sends her smiles, too -
May the peace of (insert name here) be with you, and those whom you love, always -
Lindy (Day)